As an
African-American woman, I’ve always had to prove myself as an educated person.
When I first moved for New Jersey to South Carolina I learn that people still
judge you on their own biases and stereotypes. First I was judged for being
from the North; southerner would say comments jokingly, but it wasn’t funny to
me. A most recent example of microaggression is in my current profession. I’m
Program Specialist for an early childhood program where I’m surrounded with
colleagues of the dominant culture. Our program serves a variety of families,
but the majority is American-American families. I was developing a newsletter
on summer safety for children where I was addressing the need for sunscreen
outsides. As the program director (Caucasian woman) reviewed the newsletter she
comments, “Black people do not use sunscreen.” As African American woman, I was
appalled! I immediately corrected her in an intelligent and proper matter. She
felt assume and embarrassed, and I felt disrespected and offended. I looked at her
differently for that point. This experience taught me that many people are judged
on their own biases and stereotypes. I’ve vowed to treat everyone the same
regardless of whom they were.
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ReplyDeleteAs an African American woman I can relate to your post. Dr. Sue did a great job explaining microaggressions. This week's assignments have opened my eyes to a lot about prejudicies and discriminations. I enjoyed reading you blog.
ReplyDeleteIt's remarkable that people who work with families can have such incredible lapses in judgment and knowledge. Good luck to you - I can only imagine that this won't be the last of the bias that you are exposed to. Stay strong and stand up for your self.
ReplyDeleteI will, thanks for the encouragement!
DeleteAndrea
Hi Andrea,
ReplyDeleteI agree that the way she brought up the sunscreen could have been offending. One of the media segments that we viewed for this course talks about asking questions to learn about peoples differences. I wonder how she could have rephrased her response in a less threatening way?
Amanda
Andrea,
ReplyDeleteIt was good that you kept your cool and spoke to her in intelligent and proper matter. We must have our selves right before we can go out and work with others and not worrying about what we may said or do.
Sandra